DIFFICULT WOMAN necklace

Regular price £30.00

28 reviews

A necklace for all you difficult women, refusing to keep quiet and just 'get along' and make things easier. That's not the reason we were put on this earth! 

£2 goes to Women for Refugee Women.

Details & dimensions

The words Difficult Woman are cut from 3mm. acrylic. They measure approx 8cm. by 3cm. (3in. by 11/4in.). This necklace comes on a choice of chain. All chains are adjustable to three lengths. 

Care instructions

Acrylic can break if dropped and will snap under pressure. Please store your jewellery in its box and keep away from lotions and sprays as moisture can discolour metal parts. You can clean it like you would sunglasses, with a soft cloth and water or lens spray.

Shipping & returns

Postage is £2.95 for Royal Mail Tracked-48 and free on orders over £50. I am only shipping within the UK at the moment.

Please note Tracked-48 is just the speed of shipping and does not mean that all orders are sent out to arrive within 48 hours.

I aim to send out orders within 2-3 days, but at busy time this may take a little longer, as some designs are made to order.

If you are unhappy with your purchase, and it isn't one of those listed below, you can return it to Wear and Resist in its original condition, in the original gift box and packaging within 14 days of purchase for a full refund, minus the cost of postage. If your order qualified for free postage because of the returned item I will deduct the cost of postage (£2.95). 

I can not accept returns for items made in mirror acrylic, as the surface is delicate and I cannot resell these if they've been handled. 

For reasons of hygiene I am afraid I cannot refund earrings, unless they were damaged or the wrong earrings were sent. And I cannot refund bespoke designs or sales or seconds items. 

I look at all returns closely myself and won't refund any jewellery that has been worn.

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Emma Robinson

Looks fab. So many people have commented on it!

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Beth Sarah

Really quick and easy.

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Chantelle.S

The best necklace I have ever owned! So many compliments from men and women and I think i might have accidentally started a revolution in the ladies bathroom at a bar because of it! I Love love LOVE this necklace and have worn it every time I've gone out since I recieved it. My 21 year old daughter said I look very much like a millennial which *checks notes* is what I am. The little signed thank you card with my name handwritten is a lovely personal touch. I'll be ordering more to enhance my whole difficult woman persona.

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Paula
Conversation starter

It is obnoxious and in your face and I absolutely LOVE IT! I get asked about it whenever I wear it especially men which makes me chuckle as those that ask actually ask me if there is a difficult man necklace or ask where they can get it for their wives and I go it will go very well with “approach with caution” tattoo on the back of their necks

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Sally Chesterton
Amazing product - so many compliments!!!!

Amazing product - so many compliments!!!! Have sent the website link to lots of my friends

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Janine Darwin
Difficult Women Reign

Fabulous product, loved the service, packaging and everything about the necklace.
Won't be the last purchase! ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

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Leanne Hughes
Amazing piece

I wore this necklace at a recent event where I was leading. I had so many comments about it from like-minded women who loved it as much as I did. As a welsh woman, I want to chopsy one next!

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Shaz

I wore this for the first time on Saturday and had two compliments on it within the first half an hour! Of course, I told both ladies where it was from and to look you up on Instagram. I absolutely love it xx

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Jane brook

Fab necklace - so many comments and conversations started
Love it!

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SarahG

Love my necklace! Love the message. Love your brand!!!

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Faye

Absolutely love this necklace. I originally bought one for my sister then loved it so much I got one for myself! I have a chubby neck so the chain isn’t quite long enough for me but purchased a chain extender and can wear it now.

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Tim

My friend was chuffed to bits with this!

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Liz

Great piece!
Love the design and get so many comments when I wear it.
Easy to communicate with Sarah and item arrived super quick.

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ciaran watling
Smashing gift

I received my order in the time promised and in a nice box. It looks just like the advert and has a lovely glitter to it. It's a gift for my wife's upcoming birthday so I'll come back and let you know how it's received.

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HeatherW
Fabulous purchase!

I'm really happy with this piece - I bought the grey, and it does exactly what I want which is make people look carefully at what I'm wearing! Highly recommended.

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Della Brookes
Difficult Woman - Hell yes!!

Fast delivery & this necklace is so so cool but not try hard. I love it 😍

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Maz Evans
Essential mid-life bling

I absolutely love this necklace and wear it at every opportunity. It bring smiles, solidarity and hi-fives everywhere I go - love it!

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Holly Lloyd
Such a fun necklace

I love this fun necklace. I've had so many compliments on it already. It gives me a confidence boost when I wear it! So fun.

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Hayley Burns
Perfect!

I found Sarah's jewellery at a really important time for me, when I was struggling to find and use my voice in a work situation where I was being questioned a lot. Always 'the good girl' I wear this with defiance now!

Thanks so much - I love it, the quality is great and Sarah is brilliant to deal with

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Sarah Barnes
Fabulous!

Love my 'Difficult Woman' necklace - arrived promptly and beautifully packaged. It is absolutely perfect! Thank you so much.

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JacB
Reclaim the language!

Love my “difficult woman” necklace. Really good quality and colours that sparkle. Quick delivery and beautifully packaged. And love this female led company. Women supporting women - it doesn’t get better than that. Thank you!

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Jay Parker
Fabulous necklace

Necklace is lush. Came really quick even though it had said that there would be a delay to having had time off.

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Samantha Scholes
Oh, so cute and sparkly!

This suits me to a 'T' as I AM difficult and won't accept being fobbed off, patronised or any other crap.
I was also inspired by my good friend Rachel who got this in florescent green and every time I saw her I said "I've GOT to get me one of those" so now I have!
Viva taking no shit bitches!

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Jean Siddall
Difficult woman

Great communication. Looks great. Xmas present for my daughter, so not able to say more

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Teresa Carthy
Brilliant necklace, love it!!

Absolutely love my purchase. Have worn it daily since it arrived :)
Super fast service, parcel arrived so quick. Boxed and packaged well and love the personal touch. Excellent quality and will recommend to all who will listen to me. Will continue to be a customer.
Thanks Teresa

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Alison Rutter
Lovely necklace

Love it. Message is clear & to the point. Enjoy wearing it. Goid quality. Speedy delivery too. Thank you.

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Ailsa Rutter
Fantastic service- again

Sarah is brilliant. Very responsive and sent me necklace quickly before her time off. There's a real genuine person who really cares! I'm on a social movement mission to get more people wearing her awesome jewellery. And we definitely need as many "difficult women" as possible to make the world a better place! X

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Donna Moore
Gorgeous as ever

I ordered my 'vote' necklace as soon as the election was called and have worn it every day since it arrived. I love it and, on a geeky note, the font is fab!

About Sarah Day

Wear and Resist was born in early 2017 out of an urge to channel my frustration and growing rage at the political climate into a creative pursuit that would raise money for women's charities. I believe jewellery is about more than just looking pretty. What we wear can empower us and open up conversations. Statement jewellery that actually has something to say!

Solar powered! 🌞

Wear and Resist is running on solar power as we are in the process of making our home and workshop self-sustaining. 

a very small independent brand

Designed and made with love

Everything is made and sent from my Oxfordshire studio. We are an extremely small team – I'm the only full-time member 😄 – so you are truly supporting a small business when you shop here. We aim to get all orders out within 2-3 days but some may need to be made to order and might take a little longer. Sarah xx