DIFFICULT WOMAN – collaboration with Helen Lewis
'The difficult woman is not rude, petty or mean. she is simply willing to be awkward, if the situation demands it; demanding, if the occasion requires it; and obstinate, if someone tries to fob her off.' Helen Lewis
Helen writes:
'In early 2018, it was already apparent that the referendum on Ireland's abortion laws would be an era-defining battle. It followed two years where progressive politics seemed to be in retreat in Britain and the US, with the vote for Brexit and the election of Donald Trump. Would Ireland buck the trend by repealing the eighth amendment to the Irish constitution - which gave equal weight to the life of a woman and her foetus - and liberalising its laws? When I appeared on the BBC's Andrew Marr programme, I decided to wear a REPEAL necklace - reasoning that if branded jewellery was good enough for the Suffragettes and Suffragists, it was good enough for me. Mine came from Wear And Resist, and for days afterwards, people asked me about it. So when I finished Difficult Women, I wondered if there was a way to collaborate with Sarah again. She said yes, as did our charity partner Women for Refugee Women, and the result is stunning. Many female refugees are escaping from sexual and physical violence, and Britain should not retraumatise them as it processes their applications. Women For Refugee Women gives them a voice - through English and drama lessons - and campaigns for a fairer asylum system.'
I was absolutely delighted to be asked to make a necklace to celebrate the publication of Helen Lewis's Difficult Women: A History of Feminism in 11 Fights. This is a manifesto for the Difficult Woman and this necklace is the perfect accessory. A must-read for 2020 and a voice of the Persisterhood.
'Above all she knows that no woman can fight all the battles alone, no matter how difficult she is. Sometimes, she feels tired, and worn out. But one thing saves her, because a difficult woman should always find herself some other difficult women.'

£2 from the sale of every necklace will go to Women for Refugee Women – a UK-based charity that supports women who are seeking asylum and challenges the injustices they experience. They run a range of activities for refugee women, including English classes, drama and writing workshops, with the aim of empowering them to tell their own stories. Women for Refugee Women also advocates for a fair asylum process and works towards a world in which all women who cross borders have the right to safety, liberty and dignity.
Love this shop! So happy with my purchase! Love these products, as gifts and for myself :-) Fab designs, speedy delivery, great customer service and all while supporting some excellent causes. Will definitely be back for more.
Little clouds of joy. Possibly my favourite piece of jewellery. I’ve had my eye on it for a long time but in times of needing a boost we all should have a good impulse purchase. And I’m so glad I bought this bracelet. I wear it all the time. And for me it’s so lovely waking up in the night when my brain is being over active and seeing the words “this too shall pass” glowing away at me through the dark.
Shame must change sides. Truly beautiful and powerful statement and necklace. And amazing service thanks so much.
About Sarah Day
Wear and Resist was born in early 2017 out of an urge to channel my frustration and growing rage at the political climate into a creative pursuit that would raise money for women's charities. As a writer with an art degree who has always loved jewellery, I feel like I've landed exactly where I was supposed to be.
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Let customers speak for us
from 1621 reviewsI already have two of Sarah's wonderful necklaces and three brooches (two of which were gifts from friends, who know how much I love Wear and Resist!), so I was delighted when this new sweary piece arrived, with the usual high quality and beautiful design. I especially love the way in which all necklaces can be fastened at three different points so it's possible to vary the length depending on the neckline of an outfit; so simple but so helpful. Knowing that I'm giving money to a small business which passes a percentage of profits on to women's charities is always a bonus #persisterhood.
Great necklace - perfect gift and looks so pretty even before you read the message. Arrived very quickly too
Great communication, very carefully packaged and will shop again!
This was a gift for my french speaking mother and she loves it. Just suits her general attitude to life and makes me laugh when she wears it. Beautifully made, very classy and I will certainly be borrowing it from time time!
"no coward soul is mine"... Thank you for reminding me Sarah... I've worn this nearly every day since I got it through the post. Thank you for helping me through some tough weeks - you, and your art, are bloody brilliant!
I had my eye on these for ages before finally purchasing them and I am so glad I got them.
My Grandma's favourite flowers were snopdrops. After my Grandpa died she had to move house. My mum and I went with her looking at houses trying to imagine her living alone in them.
At one little cottage snowdrops we're breaking through the tarmac outside the garden gate.
She lived happily in there for many years until she died.
She and the snowflakes looked small and delicate but both are surprisingly tough
I bought this for my sister who dared to leave her job for pastures new. I hope she will pin it to something and remember how free she is.
Easy to navigate website. Clear pricing. No hidden costs. Supporting great charities. Quick postage. Great product. What is not to love!
Super sparkly, eye catching, and I get comments on it everywhere.
I tell people I am as woke as a fairy
The website is always really easy to use. I liked that I could request to get items delivered in the same box - excellent way to save on costs and resources.
This is a fab bracelet - I love this kind of fastener as I have issues with fine motor control in my hands, and this is really easy to put on and adjust. I can confirm the text does indeed glow in the dark!
Absolutely love my Cat Lady necklace and Sarah kindly honoured my request to send a different colour after I had ordered it. I'm telling all my friends about this company! Elizabeth
Love these earrings, came beautifully packaged as always, well made and light to wear...certainly a talking point every time. I've never been disappointed with my purchases for myself or as gifts.







