DIFFICULT WOMAN – collaboration with Helen Lewis
'The difficult woman is not rude, petty or mean. she is simply willing to be awkward, if the situation demands it; demanding, if the occasion requires it; and obstinate, if someone tries to fob her off.' Helen Lewis
Helen writes:
'In early 2018, it was already apparent that the referendum on Ireland's abortion laws would be an era-defining battle. It followed two years where progressive politics seemed to be in retreat in Britain and the US, with the vote for Brexit and the election of Donald Trump. Would Ireland buck the trend by repealing the eighth amendment to the Irish constitution - which gave equal weight to the life of a woman and her foetus - and liberalising its laws? When I appeared on the BBC's Andrew Marr programme, I decided to wear a REPEAL necklace - reasoning that if branded jewellery was good enough for the Suffragettes and Suffragists, it was good enough for me. Mine came from Wear And Resist, and for days afterwards, people asked me about it. So when I finished Difficult Women, I wondered if there was a way to collaborate with Sarah again. She said yes, as did our charity partner Women for Refugee Women, and the result is stunning. Many female refugees are escaping from sexual and physical violence, and Britain should not retraumatise them as it processes their applications. Women For Refugee Women gives them a voice - through English and drama lessons - and campaigns for a fairer asylum system.'
I was absolutely delighted to be asked to make a necklace to celebrate the publication of Helen Lewis's Difficult Women: A History of Feminism in 11 Fights. This is a manifesto for the Difficult Woman and this necklace is the perfect accessory. A must-read for 2020 and a voice of the Persisterhood.
'Above all she knows that no woman can fight all the battles alone, no matter how difficult she is. Sometimes, she feels tired, and worn out. But one thing saves her, because a difficult woman should always find herself some other difficult women.'

£2 from the sale of every necklace will go to Women for Refugee Women – a UK-based charity that supports women who are seeking asylum and challenges the injustices they experience. They run a range of activities for refugee women, including English classes, drama and writing workshops, with the aim of empowering them to tell their own stories. Women for Refugee Women also advocates for a fair asylum process and works towards a world in which all women who cross borders have the right to safety, liberty and dignity.
Love this shop! So happy with my purchase! Love these products, as gifts and for myself :-) Fab designs, speedy delivery, great customer service and all while supporting some excellent causes. Will definitely be back for more.
Little clouds of joy. Possibly my favourite piece of jewellery. I’ve had my eye on it for a long time but in times of needing a boost we all should have a good impulse purchase. And I’m so glad I bought this bracelet. I wear it all the time. And for me it’s so lovely waking up in the night when my brain is being over active and seeing the words “this too shall pass” glowing away at me through the dark.
Shame must change sides. Truly beautiful and powerful statement and necklace. And amazing service thanks so much.
About Sarah Day
Wear and Resist was born in early 2017 out of an urge to channel my frustration and growing rage at the political climate into a creative pursuit that would raise money for women's charities. As a writer with an art degree who has always loved jewellery, I feel like I've landed exactly where I was supposed to be.
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from 1551 reviewsI bought these as a gift for my friend and she LOVED them. I have a couple in other colours myself too and this sky blue is a lovely colour….. tempting to add to my collection!
I bought this as a gift for a friend, it's so beautiful on her and she loves it! Beautifully made and packaged, impeccable customer service and arrived swiftly. I really love this company and everything is perfect as presents (for friends or yourself!), plus I love the powerful messages.
I love this necklace - it makes me smile every time I wear it! I really appreciated Sarah being able to adapt the chain length for me.
Fantastic quality. So very pleased with my rude hearts. What next? Already coveting the glow-in-the-dark hoops.
More colours, pretty please. I'm partial to emerald green 💚.
I wore these to a wedding and received so many compliments! They look amazing and quite the statement but I often forgot I was wearing them, they are so light, despite being so dramatic! The colours are gorgeous - I bought the midnight colourway - but would love them all!
Thank you for sorting out our delivery issues so quickly. The gift was extremely well received , the wording so perfect. Best wishes Caroline
I love these charms. I got two extra to put on my Wear and Resist charm bracelet. They arrived promptly, are easy to attach and look great. I love the range of words on them, so I have sweary and non-sweary. The messages they hold are empowering.
Fabulous! Fantastic card and such excellent value. I absolutely want everything you sell. And everyone i love gonna be getting your splendid items as gifts
Absolutely magnificent! I cannot tell you how much I love this! Outstanding. There are no words to describe how thrilled I am. Glorious
Absolutely love this necklace with the charms - great to be able to choose my own phrases too! My fellow Latin teacher friends love 'noli timere' but the others ('courage' & 'hold fast') are also awesome and I hope will see me through tough times. Thank you Sarah for making such magnificent jewellery in times like these x
Great service and communication. Very happy and confident buying from this company.
Bought as a gift for a friend’s birthday and she absolutely loves it. Beautiful quality.
I love my necklace! It’s really nicely made and very different from anything I’ve seen other people wearing. Lovely personal contact with Sarah, the maker, and extra points for the support she gives women’s charities from the proceeds of her sales. Well done, Sarah. Love what you do xx







