Have a Word with Yourself necklace, choker & bracelet

Another case of designing what I want to wear myself, the Have a Word with Yourself necklace, choker and bracelet comes on a lovely gold- or silver-plated delicate paper-clip chain.

Wear these words as a reminder to your mind to focus on what matters, when it goes skipping off along negative pathways. And of course, they are etched with glow-in-the-dark pigment to be with you through the dark times.

Each necklace is finished with an anchor, lightning bolt, heart or star. Choose from three designs, or mix and match to your heart's content. Or, if there are other words you are seeking there is a bespoke option. 

£2 goes to Women for Refugee Women.

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Care instructions

Acrylic can break if dropped and will snap under pressure. Please store your jewellery in its box and keep away from lotions and sprays as moisture can discolour metal parts. 

Shipping & Returns 

I aim to send out orders within 2-3 days, but at busy time this may take a litlte longer. Special orders and bespoke designs can take up to a week longer, and with such a big range of products, some designs are made to order so can't be sent next day. Everything is still made by me! All post is sent Royal Mail Tracked-48. You will get an email to let you know when your order is fulfilled and on its way. 

If for any reason you are unhappy with your purchase you can return it to Wear and Resist in its original box and packaging within a month of purchase for a refund excluding postage. For reasons of hygiene I am afraid I cannot refund earrings.

Customer Reviews

Based on 4 reviews

Love Sarah’s stuff so much. I have heaps of it ♥️♥️

Melanie Jarman
A really special necklace

I absolutely love this necklace. Sarah went over and above to add the words that were special to me. I’ve worn it as a bracelet all week. Just lovely. Thank you 😊

melody schroeder

Sarah was amazing and helped me design a beautiful charm etc for the choker. It’s so nice to be able to support a small independent business and you can tell how much she cares about her work and customers. She was personally invested and it’s a beautiful chain. Thanks so much!

Marnie Byles
Beautiful piece of jewellery

Really pleased with the necklace. Exactly as it looks in the pictures. Recommend as a gift or treat for yourself! Great communication throughout.

How it all started

About Wear and Resist

Wear and Resist was launched by me, Sarah Day, in early 2017 as a way to channel my frustration at the political climate into a creative pursuit that would raise money for women's charities.

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Whenever and wherever I wear my lightning bolt earrings I feel more powerful, more colourful and more me.
— Emma
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Best earrings ever! Just the most gorgeous earrings, I LOVE them. Great customer service as well when I had questions. Am slowly working my way towards a pair in every colour! 🥰✨❤️
— Rowan
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Actually obsessed with this necklace. I love it SO much. Thrilled to have discovered this jewellery brand but my wallet is seriously worried.
— Katy
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Feel the power!
— Lara

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